Sometimes, we have to appreciate the mirror of environment and people, because it lets us realize
- our greed rather than the misery of others;
- our anger rather than the unfriendliness of others;
- our ignorance rather than the unawareness of others;
- our arrogance rather than the rudeness of others;
- our distrustfulness rather than the unfaithfulness others.
Hence, slow down our pace and observe closely to our patterns of reactions, the “mirror” will point out our common delusions.
有時候,要感謝大自然和外在人事的借鏡,因為它讓我們發現
- 自己的貪婪而不是他人的吝嗇;
- 自己的怒火而不是他人的不友善;
- 自己的愚昧而不是他人的無知;
- 自己的傲慢而不是他人的無禮;
- 自己的不信任而不是他人的不忠誠。
因此,放慢腳步並細心觀察我們向來的應對模式,「鏡子」會呈現我們的迷思。
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